Encouragement from Keith Craft

“Men need 3 types of relationships; Paul-a FATHER who will love/challenge. Barnabas-a FRIEND who encourages. Timothy-a son who he mentors.”

–Keith A. Craft

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Why is there evil in this world – a comment on Jill Meagher case

The Jill Meagher rape and murder by Adrian Bayley shocked everyone in the community and rightly brought the focus on our legal system, low sentencing of violent offenders and the failure of the Parole system. But there is an unsettling, unanswered question that has been asked but not properly answered … where did this evil come from? We have read and heard all about the past and upbringing of the offender and environment always has a part to play in the shaping of a man. But as a society we need to consider that nature of mankind and its inate capacity to commit evil. This then is a discussion about the philosophy of the origins of good and evil.

Jesus made this important observation:

(Mat 15:17-19 NIV) “Don’t you see that whatever enters the mouth goes into the stomach and then out of the body? {18} But the things that come out of the mouth come from the heart, and these make a man ‘unclean.’ {19} For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander.

There is no doubt that Adrian Bayley had a heart full of evil thoughts: murder, adultery, sexual immorality … the question is again … how did this evil get into his heart?

Christian theology is based on some basic premises about sin and evil.

1. We all fall short.  (Rom 3:23 NIV) for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. We didn’t grow up and then suddenly fall short. We fall short at birth … even as an innocent. We are born with sin. Modern pyschology wants us to believe that we are born innocent. I would suggest that there is an inate tendency to do wrong that our socialisation tries to train out and control. Sometimes that works. Let’s read on.

2. The eyes are the window of the heart. (Mat 6:22-23 NIV) “The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are good, your whole body will be full of light. {23} But if your eyes are bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light within you is darkness, how great is that darkness! Let me translate, what we look at, what we see will fill our body … either with light (good things) or darkness (bad things). Some examples of evil that is available to see in a modern society:

  • Women demeaning videos
    • Rape
    • Pornography
  • Violent videos
    • Mass murder
    • Sadism
  • Terrorism glorifying websites

You get the picture.

3. People only see what they want to see. (Mat 13:15-16 NIV) For this people’s heart has become calloused; they hardly hear with their ears, and they have closed their eyes. Otherwise they might see with their eyes, hear with their ears, understand with their hearts and turn, and I would heal them.’ {16} But blessed are your eyes because they see, and your ears because they hear. This about what we tolerate as a society. Calling good evil and evil good. People justify and excuse bad behaviour.

 4. What we think (focus on) controls our thinking.  Now we come to the root of the cause of evil. (Mat 15:19-20 NIV) For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander. {20} These are what make a man ‘unclean’; but eating with unwashed hands does not make him ‘unclean.'”

5. Men become slaves to their sins. (Rom 6:16 NIV) Don’t you know that when you offer yourselves to someone to obey him as slaves, you are slaves to the one whom you obey–whether you are slaves to sin, which leads to death, or to obedience, which leads to righteousness?

So does this mean that men are just robots, can’t control their passions? No, not at all. But it means that where people continually fill their eyes, thoughts and minds with all kinds of evil, they will become slaves to that sin. So it was with Adrian Bayley.

6. The Enemy looks for people to devour. (1 Pet 5:8-9 NIV) Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. {9} Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings.

If this was the end of the article we might wonder, are we all without hope. Not at all.(Rom 6:22 NIV) But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves to God, the benefit you reap leads to holiness, and the result is eternal life.

(John 10:10 NIV) The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

Adrian Bayley must now pay for his evil. As Christians, we can only respond as preachers of hope, of life, of another way of living.

Neil Stott

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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The Power of Christian Meditation

When does God speak to you? Well this morning, while I was asleep, I received a revelation and woke with it, clear as a bell on Christian meditation.

Meditation on the Word of God

Read the Bible and then reflect on some basic concepts:

What is God saying (in a general sense)?

What is God saying to me (in a specific sense to you as an individual)?

What am I going to do about it (what am I being challenged to do, to change, to live out from that word).

Meditation on the Person of Jesus

Eastern meditation is most often about an empyting process but Christian Meditation is about focus on God. So when we think about Jesus, consider a few different approaches.

Picture yourself sitting at home, on your favourite couch or chair and Jesus sitting there with you. What would he say to you?

Or think of walking along the road and chatting to him. What would you talk about?

Or just think of the best image of Jesus and just tell him how much you love him?

Meditation on the Holy Spirit

Here is the place of being still. “Be still and know that I am God”. The rush of the day, the worries, the fears, the problems, the fights, the anguish … all of the daily grind things … just stop. Just sit, just close your eyes and be still and ask the Holy Spirit to come and refresh you and comfort you and inspire you. You might put on some Christian music, sing or find a quite place. Definitely you need to turn off the TV and put down the smartphone or tablet. Be still …

Have a great day.

Neil Stott

 

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Gay Marriage – the Discrimination no one wants to talk about

As I start this article, I want to affirm that I support a suitable solution that allows loving couples to enjoy a State sanctioned union that is recognised in law.

However, what I cannot support is a solution that discriminates and punishes another class of citizen. As a man married to a woman, father and grandfather, the current proposal for “Gay Marriage” has not considered at all the discriminatory effects this legislation has on me and people like me. The proposed changes in fact “robs me” of several things. Let me explain.

My Identity. My wife and I are a married couple. Husband and Wife. Man and Woman. Just like my father. Just like my grandfather. Just like my great grand father, right back to generations of Stotts who emigrated from England. I enjoy being married and the sense of togetherness, oneness, love and support it brings. My identity as a man married to a woman will become diminished, reduced, forever altered. My history lost. Therefore, any solution that provides a State sanctioned union for Gay couples should be one that doesn’t rob me of my identity and history.
Societies Traditions.

My traditions. Marriage as a union between a man and a woman has been the bedrock of ancient and modern societies for thousands upon thousands upon thousands of years. It is a tradition that is found in every culture, every society, every religion, every nation, every tribe, every legal tradition. Therefore, any solution that provides a State sanctioned union for Gay couples should be one that doesn’t destroy the history and traditions of our society and culture.

My Faith. As a Christian, marriage is more than a legal contract. It is a love covenant before God between a man and a woman. Supporters of Gay Marriage offer these platitudes to those whose faith believe (which include more than just the Christian faith) that churches and ministers would not be forced to perform Gay Marriages in their churches. Consider how much we faith holders will lose. In a solemn marriage ceremony held in the traditions of our faith, the words are spoken: “I now pronounce you husband and wife”. In another place, not in a faith tradition, the words are spoken before two women or two men: “I now pronounce you husband and wife”. Again, we who hold marriage to be between a man and a woman have that faith tradition diminished, robbed, taken away and replaced with something else. Therefore, any solution that provides a State sanctioned union for Gay couples should be one that doesn’t destroy the history and traditions of my faith.

Finally, a word of caution in regard to the law of unexpected consequences. When homosexual acts was removed as a criminal offence from the Statute books, the mantra at that time was that society should not legislate what occurs in people’s bedrooms. Today’s modern society is made up of an incredibly diverse collection of relationships. The State should not, cannot seek to codify each variety of relationship to give them some form of legal status. This brings us to the limits of any future legislative change. Recently a photo from the US published a father marrying his son. Will this be permissible under the new law? Should the State be sanctioning (approving) this relationship? If not, what about mothers marrying daughters, sisters marrying sisters, brothers marrying brothers? I don’t put the question to bring unwanted controversy to the debate into but to merely make the point that the law of unintended consequences needs to be very seriously considered when making such far reaching changes to societies foundational structures.

My solution? Leave marriage alone, with all its history, traditions, culture and religious connections preserved. Find another path, another word another way for gay couples to legalise their union. Please don’t discriminate against me when trying to prevent discrimination against another group, this is just not fair.

Neil Stott

About the Writer:
Neil is the leader of a Men’s Group belonging to Life Church Mooroopna and author of a blog “The Real Men Challenge”.

 

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Be ALL In! Great word from Keith Craft

“If you’re in a friendship, be All in! If you’re in a job, be ALL in! If
you’re in a church, be ALL in! Whatever you’re in, deserves you’re ALL
IN! ”

–Keith A. Craft

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