Giving our Best

I was impressed by the words from my morning devotion which fit well with the goals of the Real Men Challenge…

People living significant lives pursue excellence. They lead their organizations, their families, their businesses, and, in fact, their very lives, striving for their best. Whether they want to win games, make an impact on their children, or win their share of the market, the thread of excellence runs through the fabric of their lives. 

Jesus was committed to excellence. The New Testament gospel writer Mark reminds us that God gave his very best — ​his Son. And his Son gave his very best — ​his life. His followers should do no less. Less than our best is inadequate when we consider the fact that God has given us his very best. In view of all the Lord has done for us, less than our best is less than adequate. 

Martin Luther King Jr. once said, “If a man is called to be a street sweeper, he should sweep streets even as Michelangelo painted or Beethoven composed music or Shakespeare wrote poetry.” Whatever our role, our position, our organization, or our lot in life, we should strive for the best. The measure of our success should be attached not to our particular career or what we earn, but on our character and what we give. 

True champions are more willing to give than to get. They go the extra mile. They move beyond expectations. They strive for higher standards. 
Excellence does not mean being the best, but being your best. Understanding that distinction makes all the difference in the world.  

Jesus, help me to give my very best today . . .

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Christian Men and Depression

I was drawn to a new website aimed at men, Man Therapy, developed by Beyond Blue http://www.mantherapy.org.au/

I found it very interesting and then my journey led me to their online discussion forum for men. 

http://www.beyondblue.org.au/connect-with-others/online-forums/men

As one of the leaders of TripleM (part of Life Church Mooroopna), I take my responsibilities seriously to support the men in our church and outside of it who are seeking answers to the questions life.

So after reading a few posts in the online forum, I realise that men from all walks of life can suffer anxiety and depression.

So my question to the men who read this blog? Do you suffer depression? Do you have anywhere you can go? Anyone you can talk to?

If you need help, drop me a private line. Don’t try and fight this alone and have a look at Man Therapy.

Maybe we can adapt some of this for “Christian Man Therapy”

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Encouragement from Keith Craft

“Men need 3 types of relationships; Paul-a FATHER who will love/challenge. Barnabas-a FRIEND who encourages. Timothy-a son who he mentors.”

–Keith A. Craft

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Why is there evil in this world – a comment on Jill Meagher case

The Jill Meagher rape and murder by Adrian Bayley shocked everyone in the community and rightly brought the focus on our legal system, low sentencing of violent offenders and the failure of the Parole system. But there is an unsettling, unanswered question that has been asked but not properly answered … where did this evil come from? We have read and heard all about the past and upbringing of the offender and environment always has a part to play in the shaping of a man. But as a society we need to consider that nature of mankind and its inate capacity to commit evil. This then is a discussion about the philosophy of the origins of good and evil.

Jesus made this important observation:

(Mat 15:17-19 NIV) “Don’t you see that whatever enters the mouth goes into the stomach and then out of the body? {18} But the things that come out of the mouth come from the heart, and these make a man ‘unclean.’ {19} For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander.

There is no doubt that Adrian Bayley had a heart full of evil thoughts: murder, adultery, sexual immorality … the question is again … how did this evil get into his heart?

Christian theology is based on some basic premises about sin and evil.

1. We all fall short.  (Rom 3:23 NIV) for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. We didn’t grow up and then suddenly fall short. We fall short at birth … even as an innocent. We are born with sin. Modern pyschology wants us to believe that we are born innocent. I would suggest that there is an inate tendency to do wrong that our socialisation tries to train out and control. Sometimes that works. Let’s read on.

2. The eyes are the window of the heart. (Mat 6:22-23 NIV) “The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are good, your whole body will be full of light. {23} But if your eyes are bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light within you is darkness, how great is that darkness! Let me translate, what we look at, what we see will fill our body … either with light (good things) or darkness (bad things). Some examples of evil that is available to see in a modern society:

  • Women demeaning videos
    • Rape
    • Pornography
  • Violent videos
    • Mass murder
    • Sadism
  • Terrorism glorifying websites

You get the picture.

3. People only see what they want to see. (Mat 13:15-16 NIV) For this people’s heart has become calloused; they hardly hear with their ears, and they have closed their eyes. Otherwise they might see with their eyes, hear with their ears, understand with their hearts and turn, and I would heal them.’ {16} But blessed are your eyes because they see, and your ears because they hear. This about what we tolerate as a society. Calling good evil and evil good. People justify and excuse bad behaviour.

 4. What we think (focus on) controls our thinking.  Now we come to the root of the cause of evil. (Mat 15:19-20 NIV) For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander. {20} These are what make a man ‘unclean’; but eating with unwashed hands does not make him ‘unclean.'”

5. Men become slaves to their sins. (Rom 6:16 NIV) Don’t you know that when you offer yourselves to someone to obey him as slaves, you are slaves to the one whom you obey–whether you are slaves to sin, which leads to death, or to obedience, which leads to righteousness?

So does this mean that men are just robots, can’t control their passions? No, not at all. But it means that where people continually fill their eyes, thoughts and minds with all kinds of evil, they will become slaves to that sin. So it was with Adrian Bayley.

6. The Enemy looks for people to devour. (1 Pet 5:8-9 NIV) Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. {9} Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings.

If this was the end of the article we might wonder, are we all without hope. Not at all.(Rom 6:22 NIV) But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves to God, the benefit you reap leads to holiness, and the result is eternal life.

(John 10:10 NIV) The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

Adrian Bayley must now pay for his evil. As Christians, we can only respond as preachers of hope, of life, of another way of living.

Neil Stott

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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The Power of Christian Meditation

When does God speak to you? Well this morning, while I was asleep, I received a revelation and woke with it, clear as a bell on Christian meditation.

Meditation on the Word of God

Read the Bible and then reflect on some basic concepts:

What is God saying (in a general sense)?

What is God saying to me (in a specific sense to you as an individual)?

What am I going to do about it (what am I being challenged to do, to change, to live out from that word).

Meditation on the Person of Jesus

Eastern meditation is most often about an empyting process but Christian Meditation is about focus on God. So when we think about Jesus, consider a few different approaches.

Picture yourself sitting at home, on your favourite couch or chair and Jesus sitting there with you. What would he say to you?

Or think of walking along the road and chatting to him. What would you talk about?

Or just think of the best image of Jesus and just tell him how much you love him?

Meditation on the Holy Spirit

Here is the place of being still. “Be still and know that I am God”. The rush of the day, the worries, the fears, the problems, the fights, the anguish … all of the daily grind things … just stop. Just sit, just close your eyes and be still and ask the Holy Spirit to come and refresh you and comfort you and inspire you. You might put on some Christian music, sing or find a quite place. Definitely you need to turn off the TV and put down the smartphone or tablet. Be still …

Have a great day.

Neil Stott

 

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