2012 Men’s Conference Important messages

Keith Craft was an outstanding teacher. You can view his blog at http://keithcraftblog.com/

Here are some of his thoughts:

  1. A Warrior is a man who THINKS he has been created in the IMAGE of God for a Kingdom purpose.
  2. A Warrior is a man who chooses to BE like GOD because he has a kingdom purpose.
  3. A Warrior is a Mighty Man who will DO great exploits because he lives with a TRANSCENDENT Kingdom Purpose.

More tomorrow. Great conference, well done to Shane Baxter and his team at Enjoy for hosting a great event.

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Stylish same-sex campaign glosses over real issues

Peter Jensen

June 16, 2012
We are in the midst of a sustained and brilliantly orchestrated campaign to radically alter the marriage laws of this country to allow same-sex marriage.

 

Three slogans carry the message: ”marriage equality”, ”marriage won’t change”, ”it’s inevitable”. Of course, the difficulty with slogans is that they are not arguments and, so, are hard to refute, except by slogans in return.

 

The ”marriage equality” slogan trades on the commitment of our community to equality. We oppose distinctive traits, such as race, being taken into account when they are irrelevance. Notice the word ”irrelevant”. We may, with justice, make quite acute distinctions between people. For a political party to be allowed to hire someone who shares their political convictions is fair. Likewise, it is perfectly allowable for two men or two women to be prevented from entering as partners in a mixed doubles competition of tennis. The reality of the world God made is that human beings are in two sexes, male and female.

 

For marriage, that is supremely relevant.

 

In fact, all of us oppose ”marriage equality” if that means it is the right of every person to marry anyone they choose.

 

We may not marry a minor, for example, even if we want to and if the minor and his/her parents agree. There is a relevant difference. Nor may we marry a person already married. Bigamy is a crime, even if all parties agree to it. Likewise, siblings may not marry, even if they are past the age of having children.

 

If ”marriage equality” was meaningful, it should encompass all these possibilities. It does not.

 

In general terms, the ”right” to marry already exists. Any adult can marry provided that a proper person (not a sibling, minor, or member of the same sex) is also willing, for that is what marriage is. What we rightly lack is the right to marry anyone we choose without discrimination.

 

It’s not as though when marriage was defined we simply overlooked the possibility of two people of the same sex being married. We are not fixing an accidental omission. We would be changing a very deliberate, relevant exclusion.

 

Another slogan says extending marriage to include two men or two women would change nothing essential. Your own marriage would not change. There would be no bad consequences.

 

But it’s not true.

 

My marriage would be different. It’s no good asserting otherwise. When a society redefines one of its basic institutions, it affects everyone. I would have to find a different word for my marriage, or add the rider ”heterosexual” to the word ”marriage”.

 

The education of my children would be different. Same-sex marriage is symbolic of social acceptance of gay sex as a moral good. Most people still believe the physical make-up of humans points in another direction. But they would not be able to prevent their children being taught that consenting sex between any two persons is a matter of moral and physical indifference.

 

Human rights would be different. A right does not come into existence by mere claim and declaration. When human rights language is used in the wrong way, it cheapens the discourse. It makes it harder to stand up for human rights, and against real injustices.

 

Is it all inevitable?

 

The stylish and confident propaganda has become pervasive. Federal politics is in danger of being distorted. Those who are doubtful or opposed have been tempted to remain silent rather than be accused of promoting hate. But it is interesting that in 30 US states where the matter has been put to a direct vote (as against imposed legislative or judicial change), the majority voted against ”gay marriage”. There is also evidence of electoral fatigue in Britain and Australia

 

Same-sex marriage is not inevitable. It is not even possible. It would be better for us all if the law reflected the truth human beings have always known. Social engineering cannot change realities as basic as these. But the consequences of an attempt may still be painful.

 

Read more: http://www.theage.com.au/opinion/politics/stylish-samesex-campaign-glosses-over-real-issues-20120615-20f6e.html#ixzz1y39oPtmi
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Love this video – Skit Guys

Love this video:

http://youtu.be/3QCkBL2DfVg

Watch and enjoy and share.

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The Resolution Part 3 – taking responsibility for my children

I DO solemnly resolve before God to take full responsibility for … my children.

Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord. Ephesians 6:4 NIV

Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged. Colossians 3:21 NIV

In a world that is very much under the influence of external forces and voices, parents and fathers will have a much harder job to be the biggest influence in their children’s lives. Consider the internet, music, movies and social media and suddenly the voices of Mum and Dad can potentially be a mere murmur in a very loud world.

So in the Internet world, I turned to … the internet for these great tips.

  1. Pray Together. The most important thing you can do is to pray as a family. Oddly, this is one thing that is rarely done, but is really easy to add into your daily routine and it will really help you to appreciate the blessings God has given your family as well as help everyone understand the importance of praying for others who are in need.
  2. R-E-S-P-E-C-T. This sounds easy but can be hard at times. Yes even when you are driving you need to respect others and be a good example to your family. You especially should teach them to respect each other.
  3. Show Compassion.. Teach your family by leading by example and really sympathize and be respectful of the feelings of others. Make an effort to help people that are in need maybe by volunteering as a family at the local soup kitchen for the homeless or similar causes.
  4. Moral Compass. Be sure to supply your family with a moral compass so they are sure to know right from wrong. Point out examples on a regular basis and make sure that everyone understands what is right and wrong and how they can apply that to their daily lives.
  5. Work Hard. Many people don’t have a good example of someone with a strong work ethic when they are growing up. Display a good work ethic and make sure that everyone in the family always does their best on whatever project they are working on (homework, yardwork, or even housework).
  6. Eat Together. Given the busy lives that we all lead, it’s rare for families to sit down and eat a meal together. This is really an important time where you can enjoy each other’s fellowship and find out about what is going on in the lives of your loved ones.
  7. Discipline. Well this one is really not aas hard as what everyone makes it out to be. This doesn’t mean physically punish your family members, it means to make sure they understand the consequences for negative behaviors (lose a privilige, etc.). DON’T reward or ignore bad behavior unless you want to see more of it!
  8. Unconditional Love. Make sure everyone in the family knows that they are loved regardless of what they may do or say. One of the most important elements of a strong family unit is the feeling of pure, unconditional love.
  9. I’m Sorry. Those are two words that don’t always roll off of our lips, but they are almost magical in their power. If you do something wrong and need to be forgiven model a sincere apology and encourage everyone in the family to do the same.
  10. You be their Role Model. Don’t make your family look to professional athletes and celebrities as role models, YOU be their role model.
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Be Men of Courage by David McCracken

http://www.davidmccracken.org/

1 Corinthians 16:13 Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong.

We need people like this today. The world needs people like this. The Church needs people like this. Will you be one of these people? For many, there needs to come a militancy about our faith and life. Cruising is not ok. Complacency is not ok. Compromise is not ok.

There needs to be a sense of urgency and passion. Life is too important – our life and other people’s lives that our life is destined to impact and change.

We have an enemy who is roaming around looking for people to lead astray. He comes to steal, kill and destroy. He is subtle and he is powerful. He is dangerous…

…and therefore we need to be on our guard. We need to be walking in close relationship with God. We need to know and recognise God’s voice. We need to know His Word deep in our hearts. We need to be in relationship with good godly people who encourage us forward. We need to be on guard…and we need to stand firm in the faith. We need to stay anchored to truth. We need to be in regular fellowship with those who profess and walk in the truth. We need to go to God when challenges come. We need to keep our confidence in God and not in outcomes.

It’s time to be strong. It’s time to be faithful. It’s time to be people of courage.

Steve McCracken – David McCracken Ministries

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